12/6/08 Sat.有些事情不說出來，垃圾倒不了我就無法前進，所以我決定要說了
看完的人可能會覺得我無病呻吟或者是＂看不出來你原來心胸狹窄＂，不過算了，我實在不想把這個跟朋友說，那祇會讓人家困擾而已，乾脆自己在這邊亂吼亂叫
- 12月 06 週六 200821:56
非常惡劣的心情不爽的日記，請勿入！
12/6/08 Sat.有些事情不說出來，垃圾倒不了我就無法前進，所以我決定要說了
看完的人可能會覺得我無病呻吟或者是＂看不出來你原來心胸狹窄＂，不過算了，我實在不想把這個跟朋友說，那祇會讓人家困擾而已，乾脆自己在這邊亂吼亂叫
- 3月 20 週四 200805:01
我懷疑我是個內心邪惡的傢伙
這是一篇靠么文，不要理我，心情不好的人也別看下去了，沒啥營養的
ah well....I've been writing a lot of negative aspects of my daily life recently, I'm going to pass for this one. It really isn't a big of a deal.....at least for now. After the anger has died down, the thoughts went to "why bother? I'll be out of this shipwreck in a year or two, so i'll drop it" direction.
Honestly, I think my focus in life right now is to go out there and gain experience, I can use it as a ticket to move on to a better place. I know my friend has no such worries in her life, since she's....well....has a rich dad....
Ah well, it's her life, and her problem. Just don't bug me when I'm tring to strive for a living. And don't say anything about i stayed home too much. If it wasn't because I have to work/study/design hard to get good grades in school in order to graduate, why would I be at home and trying to finish the assignments from the professors? Don't call it "catherine doesn't like to go out because she's a loner". Hey, if I really want to drop everything and not worry about the REALITY, i can do it. But the thing is, I can't risk my future just because of this. It's plain stupid.
If I ruined my future, who's going to support me financially later on?
ah well....I've been writing a lot of negative aspects of my daily life recently, I'm going to pass for this one. It really isn't a big of a deal.....at least for now. After the anger has died down, the thoughts went to "why bother? I'll be out of this shipwreck in a year or two, so i'll drop it" direction.
Honestly, I think my focus in life right now is to go out there and gain experience, I can use it as a ticket to move on to a better place. I know my friend has no such worries in her life, since she's....well....has a rich dad....
Ah well, it's her life, and her problem. Just don't bug me when I'm tring to strive for a living. And don't say anything about i stayed home too much. If it wasn't because I have to work/study/design hard to get good grades in school in order to graduate, why would I be at home and trying to finish the assignments from the professors? Don't call it "catherine doesn't like to go out because she's a loner". Hey, if I really want to drop everything and not worry about the REALITY, i can do it. But the thing is, I can't risk my future just because of this. It's plain stupid.
If I ruined my future, who's going to support me financially later on?
- 3月 02 週日 200812:37
Anger & Tears
3/1/08 Saturday
I won't talk in detail about what happened yesterday, because there were only two that were medium level fuse. My anger toward my own mom has been there for a long time. Everytime she's been way to brainless (到現在我都無法理解為什麼她認為家裡乾淨比要為明天的期末作業報告還重要，如果我的成績因此掉下來，這是因為我不夠努力在課業上。無比感謝這位女士的邏輯，讓我開了眼界，謝謝她的示範。錯誤示範。), all i can do is SHUT UP AND LET HER NAG.
i don't remember how long i've been stepping back and let her yell/scream/complain/say something that's pretty emotional...(yes, very sad)....and i have to put up with all this. It gets even worse when Christine + Diana found excuse to get away from the house and stay over at friends' place instead of coming home.
*All right, for those of you who get to read the 2nd paragraph's last sentence, i don't know what's in your mind right now, but there's one thing i can tell you for sure: THAT'S THE RESULT OF REALLY BAD COMMUNICATION BETWEEN THE PARENT AND THE KID.
For two years---ever since Diana started to work in Vanille, there's not a day go by without the lady in the house keep asking me where the other two sisters went + what they're doing + when they're coming home. YES, FOR AT LEAST 2 YEARS STRAIGHT. If you have enough common sense, my dear readers, you should realize by now if you want to know who's going where, you should ask the person that's going, not her sister. Simply because SHE'S NOT THE ONE WHO'S GOING TO SOME OTHER PLACES. How hard is this to get?
But the lady in the house SIMPLY DOESN'T GET IT!
Believe it or not, she even went so far to call Christine at least 11 times when CHRISTINE IS AT WORK. And guess what the lady said about that....
喔我只是想問她什麼時候回來
What a loving mother.
How wonderful.
Yes she is a wonderful, loving, thoughtful mom. She told us not to do anything stupid when we're at work, so the boss won't find any excuse to fire us. Guess what she has been doing....HOW LOVELY.
Ok, i have to stop here. Because the crazy things she did are really long, and i'm tired. Even typing out all the things she did are just wasting my time. What for? She will not change even if she only got one day to live, so why bother?
To cut the story short, SHE REALLY PISSED ME OFF YESTERDAY. And i swear, once i can get out of this house (i'll have to be financially independent and have a job, of course), I WILL NEVER RETURN.
I'm not a selfish bitch that don't know what it means to be grateful. But my tolerance for all the little things she did to me (small things can pile up and become something huge) , all i can say is:
Yes, I'll do exactly what you want me to do: GET THE HELL OUT OF HERE.
As for today, there's an article that I read that made me crying as if i'm a little kid....and reminds me of a little cousin who has a mom that constantly tells her that she's fat because the mom thinks she eats too much, that's why my cousin has a protruding belly.
And guess how old is this little cousin. 8.
And last year she was asking how did I lose weight. 這叫我怎麼能不哭
我今天就算不是因為想起自己過去的事情哭，光想起這件事情就夠我哭到躲在房間裡不敢見人！！！！
語言的力量多麼大，為什麼大人就是不懂？
一定要弄到大家身心疲憊，甚至是痛苦不堪，才要來找一個common ground? What kind of communication is this?
http://blog.pixnet.net/carol541106/post/13135052
I don't know whether or not the way my mom teach us is working, but if i'm the mom, i have 3 kids, 2 of them are trying to see me as less as possible, and the last one who's always at home constantly get hurt by me....I would not consider myself as a good mom. Because 2 kids are avoiding me, and the last kid finally decides that she's going to follow her sisters' steps.
Congradulation to the lady in the house, she has now failed as a role model and a parent。
I won't talk in detail about what happened yesterday, because there were only two that were medium level fuse. My anger toward my own mom has been there for a long time. Everytime she's been way to brainless (到現在我都無法理解為什麼她認為家裡乾淨比要為明天的期末作業報告還重要，如果我的成績因此掉下來，這是因為我不夠努力在課業上。無比感謝這位女士的邏輯，讓我開了眼界，謝謝她的示範。錯誤示範。), all i can do is SHUT UP AND LET HER NAG.
i don't remember how long i've been stepping back and let her yell/scream/complain/say something that's pretty emotional...(yes, very sad)....and i have to put up with all this. It gets even worse when Christine + Diana found excuse to get away from the house and stay over at friends' place instead of coming home.
*All right, for those of you who get to read the 2nd paragraph's last sentence, i don't know what's in your mind right now, but there's one thing i can tell you for sure: THAT'S THE RESULT OF REALLY BAD COMMUNICATION BETWEEN THE PARENT AND THE KID.
For two years---ever since Diana started to work in Vanille, there's not a day go by without the lady in the house keep asking me where the other two sisters went + what they're doing + when they're coming home. YES, FOR AT LEAST 2 YEARS STRAIGHT. If you have enough common sense, my dear readers, you should realize by now if you want to know who's going where, you should ask the person that's going, not her sister. Simply because SHE'S NOT THE ONE WHO'S GOING TO SOME OTHER PLACES. How hard is this to get?
But the lady in the house SIMPLY DOESN'T GET IT!
Believe it or not, she even went so far to call Christine at least 11 times when CHRISTINE IS AT WORK. And guess what the lady said about that....
喔我只是想問她什麼時候回來
What a loving mother.
How wonderful.
Yes she is a wonderful, loving, thoughtful mom. She told us not to do anything stupid when we're at work, so the boss won't find any excuse to fire us. Guess what she has been doing....HOW LOVELY.
Ok, i have to stop here. Because the crazy things she did are really long, and i'm tired. Even typing out all the things she did are just wasting my time. What for? She will not change even if she only got one day to live, so why bother?
To cut the story short, SHE REALLY PISSED ME OFF YESTERDAY. And i swear, once i can get out of this house (i'll have to be financially independent and have a job, of course), I WILL NEVER RETURN.
I'm not a selfish bitch that don't know what it means to be grateful. But my tolerance for all the little things she did to me (small things can pile up and become something huge) , all i can say is:
Yes, I'll do exactly what you want me to do: GET THE HELL OUT OF HERE.
As for today, there's an article that I read that made me crying as if i'm a little kid....and reminds me of a little cousin who has a mom that constantly tells her that she's fat because the mom thinks she eats too much, that's why my cousin has a protruding belly.
And guess how old is this little cousin. 8.
And last year she was asking how did I lose weight. 這叫我怎麼能不哭
我今天就算不是因為想起自己過去的事情哭，光想起這件事情就夠我哭到躲在房間裡不敢見人！！！！
語言的力量多麼大，為什麼大人就是不懂？
一定要弄到大家身心疲憊，甚至是痛苦不堪，才要來找一個common ground? What kind of communication is this?
http://blog.pixnet.net/carol541106/post/13135052
I don't know whether or not the way my mom teach us is working, but if i'm the mom, i have 3 kids, 2 of them are trying to see me as less as possible, and the last one who's always at home constantly get hurt by me....I would not consider myself as a good mom. Because 2 kids are avoiding me, and the last kid finally decides that she's going to follow her sisters' steps.
Congradulation to the lady in the house, she has now failed as a role model and a parent。
- 1月 10 週四 200814:56
Freaking out
1/9/08 WednesdayI think I'll have to admit to everyone here that I'm really afraid of this Winter Quarter. My deepest fear comes from I don't know if I'm still able to take good care of my friends + relatives who need my help on getting healthy. I know they really need my support when they want someone to cheer for them, which is something that I'm willing to do since I've been there at the bottom. I know how it is to struggle with weight issues. Most of the time, it's not just the weight that makes people unhappy, it's the low self-esteem that's also requires some attention.
I hate to say this, and I really don't want to, but I have to be honest. I can't be there 24 hours anymore, the school occupies my time + energy. Now I only have a specific time frame for my friends and people who needs assistance. I feel guilty, I feel ashamed........
The weird part is, I don't even know if I'm going to fail them on this, but I'm already mortified. I'm already prepare myself for the worst. If, the worst situation really, and unfortunately, did happen in the future, that is...
I hope my deepest fear won't turn into reality. I honestly hope it won't happen.
- 12月 24 週一 200712:58
錯綜複雜的心情
12/23/07 Sunday
其實這篇文章或許不該貼出，甚至連寫出來都不可以
因為家醜不可外揚
不過說真的，我自己根本不怕別人說我怎樣了，這個條規在我眼裡是莫名其妙
原因是這樣的，所謂家醜不可外揚，就是字面上的意思
可是呢，不管在看此文章的人相不相信，若是有人真的這麼遵守，那麼你上次聽到ａ的家中的怪狀八卦，難不成是你夢到的嗎？
其實這篇文章或許不該貼出，甚至連寫出來都不可以
因為家醜不可外揚
不過說真的，我自己根本不怕別人說我怎樣了，這個條規在我眼裡是莫名其妙
原因是這樣的，所謂家醜不可外揚，就是字面上的意思
可是呢，不管在看此文章的人相不相信，若是有人真的這麼遵守，那麼你上次聽到ａ的家中的怪狀八卦，難不成是你夢到的嗎？
- 11月 01 週四 200709:42
再度反省
10/31/07 星期三
我在想，以前曾看過一篇文章，上面說當你超級討厭某人的缺點時，你很有可能也有那樣的缺點
突然想到，我非常討厭老媽一開口就沒好話，是不是我自己也有這個特性？
雖然我明白老媽的出發點是為我們好，為她關心的親友好，可是聽她說＂啊你這個不吃，你是不是有厭食症＂，＂你感冒了？哎呀你是不是得了sars＂，＂作業還沒做完？你會被教授當＂
心裡就有一股火直冒．．．．
我不知道老媽是從小是怎麼被教育的，也不知道她成長的環境是如何（在此指的是他週遭的大人或朋友是怎樣的人，不過我很確定她週遭的手足有很強親情牽絆），甚至不清楚老媽過去的交友狀況怎樣（問了，可是她不講，我哪知道她求學時期是什麼狀況，出社會以後又遇到什麼？），可是拜託，請不要一開口講話就是負面的東西
即使不是用生氣的語調罵人，光聽她說話的內容我就．．．．
很想甩頭走人．．．．
難道說句稀鬆平常的話有那麼難嗎？一定要開口就說負面的東西嗎？
是我要求太多，腦筋有問題，思考出差錯，不夠孝順，不夠心理成熟嗎？
如果是，請指出，然後告訴我可以怎麼改進，我會聽的
如果不是，拜託一下，我還想過平靜的日子，我不要每次一跟自己老媽講話不出５分鐘就生氣，and think she should just pack up and go back to Taiwan if that would make her so much happier!
I never heard any encouraging words from my own mom, believe it or not. The only times I heard kind words from her was when she heard ( or maybe someone told her) that if you say positive things to your own kids, their academic will improve. And that was really the only one time that i heard she said something nice about my GPA back in junior high.
How sad is that.
大約是去年吧，我看到張小嫻所寫的一篇文章，她說女生老了以後都會像自己的媽媽
喔天啊，我都還沒老就已經跟現在的老媽超像的了！！！！
不是我覺得長得像老媽是羞恥，而是我們三個姊妹都知道老媽是啥樣的人，別人說我們像她的時候，nobody is happy about this at all.
如果是對朋友好這一點像她，我還會有點高興（雖然老媽朋友少到可以），可是若說我像她．．．．
不知道為什麼我就會想到她開口說的負面話，接著心情就整個變糟
Am I being mean?
Am I?
我在想，以前曾看過一篇文章，上面說當你超級討厭某人的缺點時，你很有可能也有那樣的缺點
突然想到，我非常討厭老媽一開口就沒好話，是不是我自己也有這個特性？
雖然我明白老媽的出發點是為我們好，為她關心的親友好，可是聽她說＂啊你這個不吃，你是不是有厭食症＂，＂你感冒了？哎呀你是不是得了sars＂，＂作業還沒做完？你會被教授當＂
心裡就有一股火直冒．．．．
我不知道老媽是從小是怎麼被教育的，也不知道她成長的環境是如何（在此指的是他週遭的大人或朋友是怎樣的人，不過我很確定她週遭的手足有很強親情牽絆），甚至不清楚老媽過去的交友狀況怎樣（問了，可是她不講，我哪知道她求學時期是什麼狀況，出社會以後又遇到什麼？），可是拜託，請不要一開口講話就是負面的東西
即使不是用生氣的語調罵人，光聽她說話的內容我就．．．．
很想甩頭走人．．．．
難道說句稀鬆平常的話有那麼難嗎？一定要開口就說負面的東西嗎？
是我要求太多，腦筋有問題，思考出差錯，不夠孝順，不夠心理成熟嗎？
如果是，請指出，然後告訴我可以怎麼改進，我會聽的
如果不是，拜託一下，我還想過平靜的日子，我不要每次一跟自己老媽講話不出５分鐘就生氣，and think she should just pack up and go back to Taiwan if that would make her so much happier!
I never heard any encouraging words from my own mom, believe it or not. The only times I heard kind words from her was when she heard ( or maybe someone told her) that if you say positive things to your own kids, their academic will improve. And that was really the only one time that i heard she said something nice about my GPA back in junior high.
How sad is that.
大約是去年吧，我看到張小嫻所寫的一篇文章，她說女生老了以後都會像自己的媽媽
喔天啊，我都還沒老就已經跟現在的老媽超像的了！！！！
不是我覺得長得像老媽是羞恥，而是我們三個姊妹都知道老媽是啥樣的人，別人說我們像她的時候，nobody is happy about this at all.
如果是對朋友好這一點像她，我還會有點高興（雖然老媽朋友少到可以），可是若說我像她．．．．
不知道為什麼我就會想到她開口說的負面話，接著心情就整個變糟
Am I being mean?
Am I?
- 5月 27 週日 200707:45
這輩子第二次感到生命有危險
５／２７／０７ 星期日通常我寫日記的時候，那篇日記內容通常是昨天，或者是前幾天發生的事情，非常少在事後馬上寫＋登出（反正又沒人看，我也不是記者）
不過這次不一樣，這是是有生以來覺得自己可能會沒命的．．．第二次
第一次是小時候８或９歲吧，在南台灣的某處大河岸上的石壁，差點腳下一個不穩，整個人面向河面往下栽
記得當時我整個人愣住，以為自己真的就要這樣掉入急流時，我的腳居然停住往下滑（攀爬那面石壁，我記得很清楚腳下根本不是平面，滿滿是超級細碎的小石塊，一滑就甭想停的那種）
天知道為什麼突然間就不滑了，而且還冒出一個聲音大叫＂小妹妹妳別動，哥哥馬上去幫妳下來＂
哦，那時真是感動到不行，差點哭出來（我會爬上石壁完全是想到另一邊有很多人在的平河岸，想說老妹可能在那裡）
後來被救了以後，我發誓以後再也不靠近水深又有漩渦的地方
我很感謝的看著陌生哥哥和陪他的另一個年紀大我幾歲的女孩子攀爬石壁成功，沒幾分鐘還看到他們坐著空中滑車往河岸的山上去
這是我第一次覺得生命受到威脅的經驗
不過打死都沒想到今天會再遇上，更衰的是還是在自家家裡
整個情況說來話長，最簡單明瞭的說法就是老妹跟男友分手，還是在前天凌晨５點的時候（我那時完全睡死，醒來後和老妹小吵一架才從她和老姊那裡知道）
because she broke up with him, she canceled the lunch celebration for Juan's birthday. I don't know why Juan came to my house with Howard around 5 am, but I'm sure she knows what was going on at the time.
然後呢，前男友今天就跑來我家，好死不死，我剛出門到７－１１買午餐回來，正轉身要鎖門就看到他走過來（距離我家門口約１０步）
這下可好，我總不能甩上門裝做不在家吧？
而且這麼做若激怒他怎麼辦？搞不好他更堅信老妹在家，要跟她把話講清楚．．．
而我猜的果然沒錯，當我跟他說老妹不在，然後上樓去換衣服時，他看到我們兩人房間之間的洗手台有燈亮著，便跟在我後面上樓
幸好我沒被這突發狀況（在此指的是他沒預警的出現在我家門前）嚇到腦筋無法思考，及時探出頭來說＂欸，不好意思，我在換衣服啦！＂
否則他若強行要開門還得了（我和老妹的房間之中有一個洗手台＋衛浴，自然天花板上有裝燈）
雖說以老妹的個性，她絕不會躲在廁所裡避不見面的，懦弱二字可不在她的腦袋瓜中
後來他看老妹真的不在家，就用我家電話開始找人（也不知道他究竟有沒聯絡上她）
期間換好衣服下樓的我，唯一能做的就是放輕音樂＋吃東西（不然能幹麻？對一個被甩的人說話，我怕我會因為沒啥說話技巧而被怨恨）
最後他走來走去，又打了最後一通電話給師姐，接著坐下來跟我說＂你覺得現在要怎麼辦？＂
我只能婉轉的告訴他＂我不知道，我老是那個最後知道結果的人．．．＂
其實心裡真的毛到了極點，覺得自己幹麻老遇上這種事情．．．（詳情待會再說，這已經不是第一次姊妹跟男友分手，在他們找上她們前，我就先倒楣地被男友們逮到）
I think he stayed around for 40 minutes throughout the whole incident, and then he got up from the kitchen chair and asked me to lock the door for him (希望他真的是去找師姐來個心靈諮詢)
就這樣，我算是有驚無險的渡過此次危機
他走之前我跟他說保重，他給了我一個抱抱，我也回他一個，然後就這麼說再見
哎，他是個好人，個性大致上也不錯（人總是有些個性上的小缺點，不過大家都有嘛，所以沒啥好拿出來說嘴的），就是慢郎中
一個慢郎中跟一個雲霄飛車，你說這兩個人怎麼能長久？
尤其那個雲霄飛車還很沒耐性
這點身為二姊的我可是徹底領教過（被嫌慢，腦筋硬，反應不快云云，已經不下數百次）
前些天 Roger跟老姐說他覺得老妹很有耐心對待顧客(這客人剛好是他的女生朋友，他說他在旁邊聽那女生機車，已經快忍不住想打人＋覺得丟臉，老妹居然還耐得住性子詳細解說幕斯蛋糕，他就覺得阿雯很有耐性)，聽完後我和老姊兩個人同聲不同鼻的哼：
哈哈，你確定我們認識的是同一人？
又離題了．．．．
總之，今天幸好對方還算理智沒飛掉，不然我這樣讓他進門，不死也半條命
而且，我非得在這裡感謝老爸老媽，謝謝你們沒讓我跟阿雯長得一模一樣，不然今天若發生什麼情殺案，衰透倒楣的人肯定是我
另，這是第三次我遇到姊妹們和男友分手，男友找上門的事了
第一回是阿雯跟前男友分手，那人居然前門進不來，就越過牆跑到我家後院
那回阿雯好像是太傷心還是太難過，完全待在二樓房間不下去跟人家講清楚，害我得隔著窗戶拜託他先回家，冷靜下來再打電話找阿雯把話說清楚
第二回發生時間大約是１個星期前
老姊的前男友打手機找不到她，就打電話來家裡問她人在哪，我前幾個小時在ｍｓｎ胡扯說她在睡覺，結果被他一句＂tell me the truth, she's not home, right?＂打敗，那聲音裡的情緒到現在我都很難形容，心軟之於硬擠出"yes, she's not home"就什麼也說不出口
我這樣，是還太嫩吧？我實在沒辦法對別人說謊啊，尤其是感情的事
當兩個人互相喜歡，開始交往，我相信這兩人秉持的是真心；一段時間過去後，其中一方覺得沒辦法再繼續在一起，那麼即使再痛也決定要分手，雙方都不會好過
就是因為如此，才要好聚好散
人生總不能一檢視過去，總是一連串會激起負面情緒的災難吧？
這樣日子會好過才有鬼（被虐狂除外）
好，接下來就是這一次了
所以遇上人不是我殺的，偏偏我卻是人家頭一個找上的對象，還發生三次，我真的不知道要說什麼
（以下非常的情緒化，不想被傳染負面情緒的人，請務必不要看，對，拜託，我保證真的很情緒化，純粹發洩，所以不想看了大吼妳這女生怎麼如此沒手足之情＋沒人性，請千萬不要看下去，謝謝）
好吧，我當然有話要說，而且還是很不客氣的那種
喵的，你和人家交往時的幸福快樂是你在樂，你和人家分手倒楣就是我跟著一起倒楣，我是哪裡太對不起你，活該得到這種事情？
不要說什麼＂誰叫你在家＂(這理由你用太多次了，阿雯)
you made a choice to get out of the house by getting a bf + get a job, that's your choice, my choice is to stay home and get my priorities done!!!
we have different priorities, and i respect yours, and u should respect mine.
Don't expect me to be reasonable when my life is at threat!!!!
若今天是我男友找上門，你敢說你除了事後呆坐在地上＋感謝自己還有命活著＋天哪他沒有拿刀／槍枝來我們家＋在網路上破口大罵發洩情緒，你不會馬上回頭一槍斃了我？（我的反應也只能這樣，不然我跳起來要殺人也沒人可殺；再說我也不想坐美國的牢，罪名是謀殺把自己拖下水的老妹．．．老姊還好，分手有經驗果然有差，對方大多都能繼續當每逢假日說聲哈囉的朋友）
shit, 我即使沒有保護照顧的像父愛母愛洋溢的雙親，至少我沒有把這種crap帶到你面前，讓你自己去面對吧！！！！！！（更別提我根本是把自己的命拿到被甩的傢伙面前，只差人家沒有失控動手搓圓搓扁！）
這種一個弄不好會沒命的事情，我受夠了！！！！
你們兩個給我說，你朋友當中哪一人的姊妹會像我這樣為你們沒搞好的爛事如此硬著頭皮面對？我簡直是拿命去賭了你們兩個知不知道啊！！！
男友又不是我的，幸福快樂＋人家對你好也不是我在享受，幹麻我得在這裡活受罪！這種男友找上門來的事你敢說你願意為我做３次！？搞不好遇上一次你就要我馬上去跳樓謝罪，不要跟我說你不會
人的忍耐度＋幸運是有限的，今天若不是那些前男友全無潛在殺人狂性格，我現在能坐在電腦面前打字靠么兼大罵？
別說對不起，嘴巴光講那些有個屁用？
若真覺得對不起我，害我莫名其妙生命備受威脅的話，就不要再有下次
我發誓你要是敢再讓我遭受一次這種遭難．．．．．．．
就不要怪我在他們面前加油添醋說對，你是她腳踏數條船的其中一條
當然，這是謊言，但對方會知道嗎？
會聽你解釋嗎？
你自己想想吧！
－－－－－－－－－－－－－－－－－－－－－－－－－－－－－－－－
前幾個小時阿雯回來，我已經氣到沒力氣跟她說今早的驚恐事件，只是把我們目前非緊急搞定的期末報告進度告訴他，跟她說星期一她務必要能跟我坐下來一起把期末設計報告解決，不然我們兩個穩等著被當
後來我輕輕提起howard來的事情，跟她說以後都不要讓男友來我們家，尤其是分手了以後
她前腳一走，我就壓不下火氣了
混帳，居然還能沒事般的吃妳的酪梨？
好啊妳，也許妳不覺得前男友來我們家沒什麼，還交代我以後別讓他進來（廢話我要是沒讓他看到我要關家門，我哪會讓他進來！？很恐怖好不好，我又沒蠢到這種程度）
也許在妳眼裡他是個溫和的好男生，可是妳跟他相處了快三年，我跟他相處有多久呀！？天知道他在受了打擊下會變成什麼樣
我跟他之間的友誼是因為妳在才存在耶，小姐妳搞清楚！
他若是潛在殺人魔性格，我現在哪能有命活著？？？？？（妳就這麼不在乎我的生命安危？）
再說，跟他交往的是妳又不是我，我哪知道他是真的溫和還是假溫和！
very well, if this is how you handle things like this.....
you will know in the future why i don't back you up if you got hurt from another guy. I will tell you straight forward, "if u never put ur life in danger for me 3 times, don't expect me to forgive you at all".
Oh yes, I will never forgive you on this, never!
- 2月 25 週日 200701:41
煩躁指數
２／２４／０７ 星期六
最近覺得很煩，除了上星期的大掃除部分屬於自己的物品還沒有完全都搞定外，有一部分原因來自於學校和家裡
美國的房屋不知道為什麼會設計出兩個客廳的格局，所以除了家裡的人會使用的客廳外，老爸老媽決定要在靠近大門的那個客廳多擺一張沙發
在那之前他們都已經擺了一張，現在又要去親戚家搬另一張沙發過來，我不曉得他們究竟在想什麼
嘴巴上說＂客人來時可以坐＂
是呀，坐在沒有小桌能放茶杯的客廳嗎？
而且靠大門也只有２步距離（我沒有誇張，的確只有２步而已），你不歡迎人家也不用這樣暗示吧？
再者老媽一點也不好客，她嘴上常掛的一句話就是＂家裡整理不完＂＋搬來加州１０幾年，她朋友來的次數用１０跟手指頭來算都嫌太多
這樣不喜歡清東西的人（卻有嚴重的不清掃她就覺得渾身不對勁），擺了張沙發以後，就會歡迎親友來家中坐，客人走了以後勤奮地清掃？
會才怪．．．
有時候覺得大人很奇怪，但或許只要是人就會這樣吧？
有想要的東西時，就不會太管實用性的高低
離譜的是，前些日子她才在喊家裡東西太多，好啦，現在東西都還在車庫裡沒有搬進來，她又要堆另一個大型傢俱了
還說家裡沒空間＋亂？
是誰提出部分貢獻的？
這點，我懶得明說
現在很希望能早點畢業，早點工作賺錢，然後去買自己的房子
日後房子裡最好是什麼都沒有，除了基本需要的傢俱，牆上我連張海報都不會貼，什麼桌上相框擺飾都可以免
一想到裝飾家裡，忍不住就會想到自己的爸媽
哎，家人沒得選，爸媽也很愛我和姊妹們，可是有些地方．．．不是我想說．．．他們也挺矛盾的
算了，這篇又是發洩情緒用的，反正我都說不贊成了他們還是照樣要擺沙發
行
隨便他們，畢竟房子是爸媽的，沒有我說話餘地
不過以後他們肯定是我有了自己房子後第一個要小心的對象，我可不要家裡出現奇怪＋用不上的東西
突然覺得，自己這麼想要能找到好工作＋早日獨立，搞不好就是被這樣激出來的，唉！
最近覺得很煩，除了上星期的大掃除部分屬於自己的物品還沒有完全都搞定外，有一部分原因來自於學校和家裡
美國的房屋不知道為什麼會設計出兩個客廳的格局，所以除了家裡的人會使用的客廳外，老爸老媽決定要在靠近大門的那個客廳多擺一張沙發
在那之前他們都已經擺了一張，現在又要去親戚家搬另一張沙發過來，我不曉得他們究竟在想什麼
嘴巴上說＂客人來時可以坐＂
是呀，坐在沒有小桌能放茶杯的客廳嗎？
而且靠大門也只有２步距離（我沒有誇張，的確只有２步而已），你不歡迎人家也不用這樣暗示吧？
再者老媽一點也不好客，她嘴上常掛的一句話就是＂家裡整理不完＂＋搬來加州１０幾年，她朋友來的次數用１０跟手指頭來算都嫌太多
這樣不喜歡清東西的人（卻有嚴重的不清掃她就覺得渾身不對勁），擺了張沙發以後，就會歡迎親友來家中坐，客人走了以後勤奮地清掃？
會才怪．．．
有時候覺得大人很奇怪，但或許只要是人就會這樣吧？
有想要的東西時，就不會太管實用性的高低
離譜的是，前些日子她才在喊家裡東西太多，好啦，現在東西都還在車庫裡沒有搬進來，她又要堆另一個大型傢俱了
還說家裡沒空間＋亂？
是誰提出部分貢獻的？
這點，我懶得明說
現在很希望能早點畢業，早點工作賺錢，然後去買自己的房子
日後房子裡最好是什麼都沒有，除了基本需要的傢俱，牆上我連張海報都不會貼，什麼桌上相框擺飾都可以免
一想到裝飾家裡，忍不住就會想到自己的爸媽
哎，家人沒得選，爸媽也很愛我和姊妹們，可是有些地方．．．不是我想說．．．他們也挺矛盾的
算了，這篇又是發洩情緒用的，反正我都說不贊成了他們還是照樣要擺沙發
行
隨便他們，畢竟房子是爸媽的，沒有我說話餘地
不過以後他們肯定是我有了自己房子後第一個要小心的對象，我可不要家裡出現奇怪＋用不上的東西
突然覺得，自己這麼想要能找到好工作＋早日獨立，搞不好就是被這樣激出來的，唉！
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